‘I Am What I Am’— Essential Interpersonal Cinema
[Japan Cuts 2023] Shinya Tamada’s I Am What I Am is a tender journey. The film covers Kasumi Sobata’s (Toko Miura) journey of self discovery, making the path easier for viewers like her who may also struggle to take those first steps. It opens on a double date between some guys and Kasumi, accompanied by her sister Natsumi (Naki Sakai). Things get awkward for her date when he presses forward in asking her out to a movie after an amusing exchange about the way Tom Cruise runs in War of the Worlds . Kasumi doesn’t miss these cues but instead meets them with confusion and doesn’t engage with them, asking why this person wants to be alone with her just to see a movie. Kasumi is aromantic and doesn’t experience the feelings of affection we attribute to traditional relationships, and we are learning this about her just as she is. In the middle of this, her mother constantly gets in her face about meeting someone and getting married, picking apart and analyzing nearly everyth...